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Casual sex becomes just for fun when that nesting urge is not a factor.
I imagine that casual sex is more depressing for single women...
And her statements about the sex differences are not derived from personal experience I suppose because they have been confirmed by countless surveys, studies and experiments.
Sounds like Pollyanna wrote this paper, in the 1950's. If you want babies, pick up a guy in a drunken state hoping for marriage and you are say, 28, yes-perhaps a hook-up could be depressing.
If you are 45, divorced, into your career, already been there-done that with children and your hook-up agrees with your premise-we are talking an entirely different theme.
No alcohol need be involved, just two grown ups having a casual, safe (and temporary) friendship. I am right in that same situation and finding anything useful about sex at post divorce(not by choice)is far and apart.
It is based on the idea that women are more virtuous, more important than men. Don't even think of trying the converse male-biology-as-female-destiny approach.
When the author says "most...", it is not a generalization, generalization would be "all..." and I have not found any generalization of this kind in the article.
Right off there can't be a double standard when considering that the vast majority of men are lucky to get an occasional hookup. It's shameful that the author couldn't even google it.It should be noted that in the Reid, Elliot and Webber study neither men or women seem to be particularly happy with NSA sex but women are less happy.Perhaps humans were not meant to couple in such a way and though the delay of long-term relationships farther into adulthood, and the science of may have given us new choices, it could be that humans—both men and women—were meant to couple in the context of more meaningful, 'safer' relationships.There is a culture of 'hooking up' that has become popular among college students and young adults. Harper reported on a study of no strings attached sex in colleges students in the .There are websites that cater to people who are not interested in a relationship other than a brief sexual encounter, or are interested in an ongoing sexual relationship with no promise of a future or of anything more than the sex. Lisa Wade, a sociological professor who authors a blog called Sociological Images, conducted a small study and found that women who hooked up did feel the freedom to say yes to sex but they did not feel like equals to men in the modern sexual culture of young adults. Webber, studied 273 students and found that though students perceive sexual desire to be equal in both men and women, they believed that women were just as capable as men of having sex. In their literature review they reported on studies that showed that although both men and women want emotional commitment, commitment was more important to women, and women often have sex hoping that things will evolve into a relationship.